What Makes A Man Appealing?

Only one thing really matters, if you ask me:
a man's ability to pay attention!
that includes (but is not limited to):

• Listening
• Reading AND Comprehending
• Remembering Things
• Noticing Details

See? It's not about intelligence, creativity, humor or physical ability (though, they are all great qualities) because if the Paying Attention is not there, none of those other qualities matter anyway.