How Men Can Emote: Tips From Boot Goddess Gina of Future Femdom

I sometimes teach special classes in Second Life, on the subject of emoting. They often are held in the secret Training Section of Future Femdom city. (inquire for details!)

Many people have very different definitions of the term, and the aim at FF is to inspire and teach the best practices that really do evolve men into something more interesting than statues.

Here is a brief overview of my own '3 Steps for Meaningful Emoting'. If you don't do these, you are probably not providing the real value you could. This doesn't refer to only 'play' situations in a virtual environment. This are good tips for many forms of self-expression.....

Gina's Steps for Meaningful Emoting

STEP ONE:
Use words to say IN DETAIL what you SEE.
This is a way to prove you are really observant and paying attention. It also takes the focus away from yourself and onto others

STEP TWO:
Use words to say IN DETAIL what you DO.
For this, add even more creativity and passion (and mix w/ step one)

STEP THREE:
Use words to say IN DETAIL what you FEEL.
Now add all three steps together, and do all three as much as possible to show you are active and alert

Let me know how these steps are working on contact me (Ginette Pinazzo) anytime to discuss

Good Men Be Free And Support Matriarchy: No More Chastity, Imprisonment or Restraints

This is for all of the 'bdsm' people and men who think being restrained, chastised or imprisoned has any value. It does not. So if REALLY support Matriarchy, rethink your positions.

Men must be strong, passionate and free to worship the Matriarchy. Weak, dull and captured men mean nothing, and have no convenient role. (men, just because you like it, doesn't mean we care about doing it to you)

A man that is 'bad' is just more work for Us, and who has time for that?  Men must be 100% convenient and that means anticipating Our Thoughts and acting without orders. Get it?


Prisons etc are for bad men (the useless) and these exist from the world of the patriarchy. Punishments exists only because of the echo of a 'man's world. Such negative actions are not needed because we (the Sisterhood) can choose to breed only real men....good ones! It is Our Responsibility as the Leaders to do this.

Men, if you like to be restrained, do it to each other as you always have, but leave Woman out of it. Even then, start to drop the idea completely, as all men must learn to cooperate and collaborate, never compete or fight again.

Finally, free men are the best (and only) worshipers and lovers of the Matriarchy. Worship and Love are always willing, never forced. Be free and be better!

New Definition of Man: The Goddess Matriarchy and all Female-Led Relationships Take Note!

What is a man?
It is time for all Sisters to adjust definitions for the new era, and to really stick to the new definitions!

Here is the premise:
A male is not automatically a man (though man is always male)
Here I separate males into 2 categories.....

1) man: loving, supportive, worshipful, responsible, civlised, passionate, entertaining, hopefully humorous, fun and working together w/ each other for the Matriarchy

2) useless: any males that don't fit the 'man' definition

There are a few implications here:
1) it is Our Responsibility as Sisters to firmly reject the useless. They have no place in the future. We must act quickly, often together as Sisters, to shut them down and let them know they will not make it into the next generations.

2) Along with this. We must remove them from Our lives, communities and society as much as possible. We must never let them breed. (We control the breeding). We choose the men as We wish, but must never choose the useless.

3) We must do our best to nurture and educate the young males to be men, not the useless.

Let me know your responses in the blog comments or FB comments.
Love, Gina

The Loving Power of Worship Energy: A Glimpse Provided by Ginette Pinazzo

I walk into a cafe.
Escaping the chaos of the world outisde.
This isn't a 'private room' (as there are few of those on modern society!) 

I order tea and look around to see dozens of men, already in their perpetual states of loving worship.
The bodies surround me on the floor, scurrying to provide love and passion. Their wonderful lips doing their work, or begging to do more.

I smile to my Sisters, who are in various states of coffee-sipping and book-reading, all surrounded by differing numbers of men,  slaves that have all been bred to be absolutely perfect in every way, enjoyable to watch, to touch, to sense. One man simply kneels aside and acts like a bookrest, while another is massaging calves. One squirms at the feet and prays with soft murmurs, while another is curled up in the corner praying just a bit louder.

I settle into the chair of my choice and wait for tea while flipping through a tablet, as two men crawl to my feet and moan beautiful things before beginning their ritual kissing of boot leather.

The days when that would have been distracting are long over, because this is normal now.

This is room filled with wonderful Worship Energy.

Future Femdom's Labour Policy: How The Banned May Get Unbanned

I am very happy that, generally,  the male members of the Future Femdom group and male visitors of the city are bred well and are wonderful worshipers. I find it very pleasing and exciting to wander the city and know that, generally, any slave you see will likely be a fun plaything and above all, very convenient and respectful.

Of course, in Second Life, we expect a certain amount of 'unpredictability'....

For various reasons, we have found it necessary to 'ban' a slave. In Second Life, banning means that a specific resident cannot enter the area again (unless unbanned by the land owner)

Why do we Ban?
Sometimes it is a absolute griefer, harassing brat, or mischievous troll. Sometimes it is someone who has arrived just to cause trouble, or someone who is a known misogynist or abusive personality throughout SL. (yes, I have banned a few abusives who may never have tried to enter Future Femdom before, but I know enough about them to prevent the possibility. I mean, really....who would want trolls like Counter Landfall aka Gavin Hird or discriminatory hacks like Solo Mornington anywhere near their peaceful and free land?) SL has its fair share of arrogant troublemakers; those ban lists can get quite lengthy!

More often than that, men are banned (and sometimes, Women who don't act very sisterly) because of simple rules violations. Sometimes its a small matter, and the ban in expected to be very temporary. Other times, it is a more serious level of disrespect and banning carries more weight.
A banned person will likely be able to remain in the Future Femdom group  (for communications sake) but will not be able to enter the actual land.

Labours
In any case, a man who disrespects the Sisterhood and/or the House Rules of Future Femdom is banned and then assigned a certain number of Labours. The number will reflect the nature of the transgression. Many transgressions carry a penalty of only one Labour, while more serious ones may be as high as 3 or even higher.

How To Get Unbanned

1. The man must write a notecard, with a list of suggestions/proposals of WHAT THE MAN WILL DO. Suggested Labours are not the same as 'promises'. Labours are actions the man will DO to prove he really wants to return, and they MUST be actions he can do BEFORE the unban. (in other words, the Labours cannot be performed within Future Femdom)
2. The man must send the notecard with the proposed Labours to Ginette Pinazzo
3. If any of the Labours are approved,  the man may then do them.
4. Once the approved Labours are finished, the man will be unbanned.

How To Get Unbanned
I completely refuse to suggest ideas for Labours. The men must be creative and think for themselves. We do not work for men. They are free to ask other men in the FF group for advice, or consult anyplace else, but it is not the task of the Sisterhood to think for men. The ideas do not need to be elaborate (but may be). The Labours can even be a fun and creative opportunity, and I feel the men that understand this are best suited to become our worshipers anyway.

Why This System?
Men must do the work. If they are serious enough to propose the Labours and do them, they are probably worth having back. Otherwise, who needs the lazy ones? I have found that the men who take the time and effort to come back properly often become wonderful worshipers. Those who whine about the Labours and don't do them, were never worth the trouble in the first place. Part of the Sisterhood is about responsibility, and to me that includes making sure that men do not manipulate or become lazy. To me, this includes having quality expectations and being strict about them.

More about the Labours System can be found at Future Femdom website

What's the 'boy' thing all about?

Maybe it is a local expression / custom but I never quite understood the habit of calling men 'boys'.

It seems a common practice in the 'femdom community'. and I don't find it offensive, just odd. 

To me, it is significant that a man falls to the floor and worships. Not a boy. There is no significance to a 'boy' falling in reverence, because a boy is a yet-unformed man anyway. When men fall to the floor and accept their destiny to worship the Matriarchy, its has great significance. They are ending the old, unnatural ways of the oppressive patriarchy and crawling on a New Path.

Calling them boys does 2 things: it removes that significance, and it also lessens their level of responsibility in their behaviors. We can try to expect some level of maturity from men, but from 'boys'? That is setting a 'low standard'. I don't love being called a 'girl' (depending on context, it can be acceptable, but is often belittling)....but I really don't love referring to men as 'boys'.

Put Down The Sticks

We often joke that the old ways of men (violent competition, rankings and classism, ego and hubrice) have led to them 'fighting with sticks' and that is a path never to be followed again or allowed by the Matriarchy. We have a strict policy that men must never fight, argue heatedly, or engage in serious competition where they belittle each other or create resentment. Their duty and purpose is to worship the Matriarchy and that can ONLY mean they cooperate and work together.

Obviously, the passion and energy of slaves is strong and we all know it can be thwarted into destructive behaviors if the old ways are practiced, but it is the Responsibility of the Sisterhood to teach and practice the New Ways so that this energy can be channeled into the good work of that men are destined to do. For this reason, all slaves must address their inter-slave concerns peacefully and always focus on the important work: Worshiping All Woman