Showing posts with label leadership. Show all posts
Showing posts with label leadership. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Margot Wallström Puts Feminism FIRST in Foreign relations (as it should be)

It's time for the world to get on track and prioritize Feminist concerns (and by that I mean: stopping the oppression, abuse and inequal treatment of Women across the globe) when it comes to international relations.

Margot Wallström has taken the necessary stand (and of course, been vilified by the swarms of misogynists as you might expect) to put Feminism First in dealings with other nations.


This is the attitude any sane nation should maintain.

  1. Alter your relations with societies that still live in barbarism through their oppression of Women and Girls. Make your disapproval clear. Change policies based on this.
  2. Do not condone their practices but openly condemn them. Never support their barbarism. I am not suggesting cutting off communication (w/o communication, progress can't be made). I am saying: take a new approach. Insist on helping them improve, if they hope to be taken seriously on the global stage. In other words, put conditions on the friendship.
  3. Diplomats, earn the title.   You are only harming your own people, and the people in oppressed nations, by condoning (silently or otherwise) barbarism.  Take the stand. In the end, this will help everyone. Tip: The freedom of Sisters is MORE IMPORTANT than the stability of your government job.

    I hope to see more step up (Sisters as well as men) to stare the real issue in the face, across the globe: A society that oppresses Us needs to held in account, strictly, and MUST evolve if it expects to be included in the future.

 

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Sisterhood Means Standing Together, Respecting Each Other and Honoring Each Other's Dignity

< The photo is from Pro Mujer... Please find out about this wonderful organisation and support Women In Business! - Gina

What does Sisterhood Mean?

It means everything.

Today I want to talk about how it means respecting and honouring each other.

Men, well, we know what they can be like. Sometimes they feel not quite as evolved as they could be! As Sisters, as we evolve, part of our Responsibility is to weed out the bad ones and only condone the good ones. Sounds easy, I know.The progress of a civilised world depends on Our Leadership in this, and so many other areas.

Sisters must stand together as much as possible, and never let the manipulations of men come between Us. This can be challenging because the manipulations are not always so obvious.

Today's point for Sisters: accepting men who are disrespectful to other Sisters is tantamount to yourself disrespecting other Sisters. How so? Let me explain further....

If a man is cheating, lying, abusing or in any way disrespecting a Sister, We have an obligation to condemn that man for the bad behavior. We have the obligation to each other, and to society.

Any Sister who 'accepts' a man who has done these things, or is doing them currently, is undermining Sisterhood and an evolved civilisation.  Think about it......We deserve better treatment from each other. We don't ever need to fall into the patriarchal traps of negative behaviors. If a man is disrespectful to another Woman (even if she on the farthest side of the ocean from you) never accpet him because you are, in effect, dishonouring her., We must collaborate and share information so that the 'bad ones' learn to improve, AND that they make any reparations required to demonstrate their progress.

Does a bad man deserve another chance? < big question
Here is my answer to that.
1. The man must do full reparations to anyone affected by his disrespect, even of that means all of society
2. THEN, after that....He must be able to explain what he did wrong and what he has learned
3. THEN, after that, he must apply this 'new understanding'  by actively respecting all Sisters

Along with these steps, each of Us must maintain full respect of each other, and honour each other.

With these simple steps, the chance of a bad man turning good is possible. I know full well that some won't evolve, and for those We need to dismiss them altogether forever.

I hope this opened a few eyes and maybe even helped is some small way.
Sisterhood Is The Future!







Sunday, January 19, 2014

Women in the World joins Vital Voices

The Women in the World Foundation which promotes resources for the empowerment of women and girls around the world, has now joined with Vital Voices.


This combined effort will expand the outreach and impact of both organisations and is exciting news for everyone! Check out the website here: Women In The World Foundation


Monday, December 31, 2012

Wrapup from TEDxWomen 2012: Looking Forward and Being Inspired

Here is a great start to your full Recap of this year's TEDxWomen event, at the Paley Center for Media.

Great presentations and takeaways. See the videos and more.

Read the wrapup from TEDxWomen 2012 here

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Beware the Middle Management of Second LIfe: Poor Leadership Plagues the Virtual World

Hey, this might be part one in a series called 'Having a Career in Second Life: Are You Crazy?' - Gina

I'd have to characterize my 'career' in Second Life as a series of wonderful accomplishments punctuated by occasional brushes with ineptitude.  I can count those brushes on one hand, so they are infrequent, though traumatic in each case.

As you work in SL, doing whatever great things you envision, you will undoubtedly encounter what some people call 'drama'. I am not talking about drama (an overused term anyway). There are cases wherein I'd use the term appropriately, such as the 'drama' that many trolls cause on purpose, due to malevolence or incompetence. But again, this in not the subject of this article.

With the day-to-day 'drama' you may encounter, chances are you have reached a point where those issues don't even bother you. They are inconsequential. They are ephemeral.

No, I'm talking about the secret 'glass ceiling' of Second LIfe. SL's Middle Managers.

As you do your good work, and aspire to do better, you may reach a point where you encounter a certain cadre of residents. These are residents like any other, save for the fact they envision themselves as something far more. They envision themselves with more power, more influence, more credibility. This is not a problem on its own, and after all, there are people with more power, influence and credibility. The specific phenomenon to which I refer is rather insidious, because in Second Life, many of the Middle Managers dont have the maturity, ethics or experience to actually be responsible.

This is a dangerous situation because you may have very unqualified and possibly toxic personalities in 'positions' within Second Life that affect many people.With power, influence and credibility these people should have responsibility, yet too often I see that this cadre of residents lacks any positive leadership skills to fulfill the 'job' in a responsible manner.

Effective leaders excel in communication and listening skills, engage with their group, have awareness and facilitate creative investment from the members. This is a rare occurrence within the Middle Managers of Second Life. Too often, these Middle Managers are arrogant, unresponsive or outwardly destructive. Amazingly, as one would think the virtual world might 'lead the way' when it comes to networking and group dynamics, when you reach a certain level, you see the opposite is true. Top-down management, micromanagement or complete alienation are all common practices of the Second Life Middle Management. Sometimes it seems that Second Life is stuck in a 100-year old management style.

It doesn't help that the administration itself (Linden Labs) has, within its conduct, some of the worst practices of toxic management style. However, you don't even need to examine the practices of LL (which is another, admittedly more complex issue), to see the problem with the so-called Middle Management.

Typically, the Middle Managers of SL are self-appointed, though not always, such as in the Linden Endowment For The Arts, where they are hand-picked by the Lab. And not all of them are poor leaders, but if you are going to embark on a SL career, be prepared for the worst.

Realize that the Middle Management of SL has, within its population, some very unqualified and outright toxic personalities. These are residents who will stop at nothing to maintain their imagined positions. Always stay alert and never move too quickly. Never get too involved with them. Keep your privacy intact. It simply isn't worth risking the chance that a toxic personality will invade your privacy.

In group dynamics, Trust is always one of the most important topics. Be careful with your trust. These Middle Managers are simply not always responsible enough to value you as they should, and could turn on you within seconds. Keep a nice distance that is safe and be ready to stand up to defend what is right, despite the odds. Realize you may think you are working with someone at least as mature and responsible as you, but those facts may change quickly.

Tip: Maintain your own publicity and marketing, to survive whatever damage the Middle Managers may attempt to cause.

My career in Second Life has been largely fruitful. As I stated, the instances of toxic Middle Management have been few.
  • Back in the early days of Zindra's formation (the adult continent), both Lias Leandros / Blady Bommerang and Counter Landfall / Gavin Hird quickly revealed themselves to be toxic personalities that were self-imagined Middle Managers.  Because of their lack of responsibility they caused great damage. They tried to control or shut down conversations, acting as if they were authorities well beyond their actual positions. Their 'work' alienated countless residents, negatively impacted business and social aspects of SL, and directly led to the destruction of community on the adult mainland.
  • Within the LEA (Linden Endowment For The Arts) there was a small minority of Middle Managers who exercised unethical behaviors and almost destroyed the organisation through manipulation and political maneuvers. Because LEA is 'propped up' by Linden Labs, it survived, but nevertheless kept some of the same Middle Management. The legacy that is left is one of corruption, and a negative publicity sting that doesn't seem to be reversing.
I think a career in Second Life is a viable concept, if you have great ideas, perseverance, and the ability to perceive the danger of poor Leaders in advance.
Positive leadership is rare in SL.
Keep your eyes open. - Gina




Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Why Femdom Equals Freedom: Independence Leading To Matriarchy

Feminist movements have worked hard to bring about equality in every aspect of society. This has been a long, ongoing process, and is still a challenge in many areas of the world. While the term has had many nuances in its interpretations, it cannot be forgotten that Feminism is a noble and necessary foundation from which Sisterhood can bring about the best changes in the world. Feminism is a movement to love and be proud of.

Feminism relates to Freedom, as equality requires empowerment for Sisters everywhere, but what about Matriarchy?

For many, the concept of Matriarchy is simply a gender role-reversal of Patriarchy. While this interpretation may be upheld by a dictionary, the term has come to mean much more in popular usage. I think it is important to see definitions of Matriarchy (Femdom, to some) with new, enlightened vision.

At its simplest, Matriarchy can be seen as a reversal, where Sisters are 'in charge' rather than men. However, the nature of that leadership is what must be discussed, for it is the nature of the leadership that makes it far more than a reversal. Thinking of Matriarchal movements as simple gender role-reversals, does those movements a disservice.

Matriarchy may mean that Sisters are Doing It For Themselves, but the Way we do it can be completely unrelated to the old forms of patriarchal control. While men may have attempted to rule the world, rule nature, rule the family and community, through their often characteristic ways, the Way in which We 'rule' can be very different. So different, in fact, that it bears no resemblance to the old ways of men. No resemblance whatsoever. Far from 'copying' the antiquated ways of men, Matriarchy leads in new directions.

Rather than Sisters Doing It For Themselves, perhaps Sisters are Doing It For The World. Rather than competing to control and dominate through violence and intimidation, perhaps Sisters are collaborating on innovative ways to communicate and build bridges, to strengthen the global network for a better chance to grow and survive. Rather than using up resources and limiting opportunity, perhaps Sisters are finding new ways to inspire creativity and reward success in groups. Matriarchy can be (and is!) a New Way to approach the World.

If one assumes there have been biological and/or social differences in the many roles we as Women and Men fulfill in family or community life, for example, one can also see how the differences can extend to leadership styles. Following that, one can easily see how very different Matriarchal approaches are from patriarchal ones, from family leadership, to community leadership, from governments to education.

The management and leadership styles of Sisters takes Us to new levels of Freedom: Empowerment on a large social scale. As group models evolve in the workplace and community circles, as new communication standards are adopted, and new expectations about ethics and 'happiness' become part of the fabric, we see Sisterhood making the difference everywhere.

When we say Femdom = Freedom, we are saying: The Female-Led World is a liberating and innovative one that benefits humanity, nature and the blessings that exist between both. And yes, I propose we take the term 'Femdom' away from the pornographers who have kept the word hostage for years and lovingly embrace it as a fun, two-syllable variant for the Matriarchy.

Freedom is the fought-for right of the Empowered, and with Matriarchy's leadership, there is Empowerment and Enlightenment for all. For the men who worship us with love and passion, as We lead the World, there is beautiful freedom for all of them. For Sisters everywhere who yearn to be creative, free and happy, Femdom is your Freedom!

- Gina







Thursday, March 8, 2012

Sunday, November 20, 2011

TED Talks: Women Reshaping the World

An incredible series of videos from TED filled with inspiration, education and insight. You will probably want to watch them all!
TEDTalks: Women Reshaping the World

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Traditional Gender Roles: The Light We Bring: by Ginette Pinazzo

When people discuss 'traditional gender roles' they are not always looking back as far as they might, or considering the larger scale of humanity. The MOST traditional roles are those that exist deep within us.
As Women, we Create, We Connect...this is traditional...it has always been so.....even before your current and very specific 'civilisation' appeared.
Men have done many great things....this should never be denied...but always they have done so in the shadow of Our Will...the Will of the Sisterhood.
Men: We have loomed over you throughout history, and we have laboured to keep the world alive.
As the world gets smaller. you will see us more clearly, from the shadows, rising above....and you will Live in the Light that We Bring.