Adventures in Second Life

A crazy mixed-up day filled with adventure. Many new arrivals. Having fun. Helping friends, sharing laughs, banning slaves......

Yes, the inevitable bans happen everyday.

Sadly, part of the SL adventure.

I could make a list, of all the various reasons I ban people from FF, but few of them would be worth it! It's part of the daily routine, it seems.

I prefer to concentrate on the love and warmth and goodness that comes with those days instead. is that hard to do? Yes, some days it is. Today I watched 3 men 'turn' disrespectful before my very eyes. Were they 'good men'. Perhaps. In some cases. In other cases, they were bad all along.

But as I say, they are good until they turn bad, right?

What saddens me FAR more than any slave's actions are the ways in which we, as Sister 'Femdom' sims, react to things and work together (or don't, as the case may be).

So many things to say about this topic......
I'll save THAT for a another post, soon to come.

An Apology From A Man is Worth What?

The unwritten (but maybe soon-to-be-written) policy around here is this:
men, if you do something stupid or silly or absolutely wrong, DO NOT APOLOGIZE! An apology is the most annoying sound ever.
Why?
If you make a mistake, EXPLAIN why you did it.
Then, FIX the problem.
I am appalled that men in SL do one stupid thing after another and somehow think 'apologizing' will erase the mistake and incur forgiveness.
No, it does not work that way.
And I encourage all Sisters to take my position.
How it works is THIS way:
you earn forgiveness by explaining what you did wrong and why, and then work hard to fix the problem. This is the ONLY way we can have any confidence you have actually learned from your mistake.
Any questions?