Jolly St Kick!

Happy Holidays!!!

Slave Submitted Stories

We've finally started gathering all of the slave-submitted-stories and created a section of the Future Femdom website for them. Some are slave assignments, others are unsolicited, and some are ones found by accident online! We hope to see this section grow!

Slaves On A Plate!

Are tiny men delicious? Let's find out! We have a new series of plates (three varieties) for use with the Shrunken Slave System. Watch him wriggle in Jambalaya, Chimichangas or Chicken and Dumplings! Visit our Slave Shrinking Center to see these funny plates!

Reflections On SL part one

I cam here for a purpose, part of a mission, with an agenda (that I do not hide). 'Virtual' worlds are important to the future of humanity for many reasons, and Second Life is the most influential one. What happens here is very related to the future....
Sometimes I am very busy working on projects, some of them quite large, and I don't spend as much time as I should relaxing, playing and exploring the wonders of this world. (I always make a point to play with slaves, but there are so many other ways to play)......
It's also a challenge in SL because of the endless stream of problems that appear once you've been here a while. It's that 'third phase'.....

Phase One: You explore, learn your way around, meet people, set up your home, establish yourself.....

Phase Two: you grow your career, a business, a passion, a mission. You network, get involved in groups that matter. You throw parties.

Phase Three: You've made it! Now you get to be depressed and have enemies.

Well, if you are like me, you do not come to SL to have enemies. (though I suspect some do come here for that!). Who has time for it? Besides, I took a vow to never become angry in SL. Sad or depressed, sure...but angry? Never. This doesn't mean enemies won't try to have you!

Anyway, with the 'diverse' mix of people in SL, it's just a matter of time before you encounter some of the worst types imaginable. (that's why it takes three phases to get there). Second Life is also unique in that, bad behavior is far more tolerated than you'd expect. If you try to live a good life, you will find yourself attacked by those who are trying to live a bad life every day. This is not or the faint of heart.

Is SL a good place to be? For the first two phases, absolutely....

Once you reach the third phase, it's a question of your commitment and ability to suffer fools. Luckily, most of them come and go like the tide. Sadly, many of them come and go like the tide...

A Goddess moves on, as She must.....

New Exhibit: Is This Turning You On?

I can highly recommend a new exhibit by Scylla Rhiadra, currently showing in Second Life. Is This Turning You On? is part of the 16 Days of Activism in SL event, a full schedule of intriguing performances and presentations.
From Scylla's introduction:
This exhibit asks a very simple question about role play that simulates gender violence in Second Life. This question, reiterated in slightly different ways throughout the exhibit, is directed most particularly at those who assume the role of abuser, rapist, or killer, in the course of role playing sexual violence. Most starkly expressed, it is this:

Why is it that you are so turned on by the thought of violence?

New Exhibit: Is This Turning You On?

WARNING
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This exhibit is a very frank and direct exploration of simulations of gender violence in Second Life. It contains highly graphic depictions and descriptions of extreme sexual violence that may be offensive, disturbing, or triggering. Please do NOT enter this exhibit if such material is likely to disturb you unduly.

NOV 2010 Future Femdom Catalog and Guide

Hre is the cover and inside spread of the NOV 2010 Future Femdom Catalog and Guide, containing all of the teleports you will need to shop, play and explore in the city of Future Femdom.

The Most User-Friendly Slaves!

We train men to be worshipers at Future Femdom, not servants or 'pets'. Worship means active, and that's why I like to say Future Femdom has the most 'user-friendly' slaves anywhere. Men that don't sit around, passively, awaiting orders. The men here are taught to learn our moods, whims and preferences, and anticipate. They are taught to listen so well, they notice what we do and provide immediate worship that is appropriate at that time. It takes some time to teach them this, but the result is worth it. In the end, it's all about our convenience. A man should not be 'work'. There existence should complement our lives, so they can be intuitively avalaible as playthings. User-Friendly!

Smothering Bowl

I am very excited to announce the newest toy at Future Femdom, the Smothering Bowl! Remove the lid, toss a man inside and use him in various ways. Then, return the lid to keep him inside (if you want). It's fun!

Future Femdom: 24 hour Video

Watch a cute video that show a 24-hour cycle (day through night) of Future Femdom, Second Life's only 100% immersive Matriarchal Society. The view is from a little far away, but it's cute anyway (I think!)
See Future Femdom on Video here

OCT Guide/Catalog

Here is the latest Future Femdom Catalog/Guide, available at the Landing Point of the city, plus in the many Reading Seats scattered throughout. The Guide contains all of the items for sale in FF, plus teleport landmarks for everything you will ever need. Pick up your copy now!

Funny Slave Names

Thinking about some of the funny types of names that slaves give themselves in SL (dropdeadsexyman156, etc etc), I decided to invent some that new ones can choose.

Q: why do they add numbers at the end of their names, anyway?

SLAVES: CHOOSE FROM THIS LIST

• needstobetoldeverylittelthingtodo4352728
  
• thinkswithhisnuts69?
  
• pretendingtoworshipyoujustsoIcanseeyounaked5872340
  
• cummingwhileAFK47219
  
• pretendstonotknowenglish82249
  
• threeyearsstillnoprofile88225
  
• realgoaliswebcam29117
  
• onlycaresaboutyourheight622987
  
• spendsmosttimeincampingchairs32958
  
• shytothepointofuselessness92711
  
• writingaresearchpaperonsex5812
  
• wantstobeyouroenandonlymanjustbecause4092
  
• bannedfromeveryotherfemdomplace217
  
• submissivenotaslave2917777
  
• willleaveattheworsttimepossible38776
  
  
  

NEW Grinding Mat

A new toy is at Future Femdom that is fun to use to tease, smother and use slaves. The Grinding Mat is a nice way to relax and enjoy men! (I think so, anyway)

No Hunting / No Poaching

A reminder to all members that hunting/poaching is strictly forbidden at Future Femdom. Sometimes there is a plague of it through Second Life (especially in 'femdom' places)

Definition of Hunting?:
...taking men away from FF and restricting them so they cannot come back, or restricting them in any way that makes them unusable to the rest of Sisterhood. FF is a societal femdom...a matriarchy, and we work hard to ensure that all men are taught to worship all Woman. Anything that goes against that is not allowed. (this is not a hunting ground)

It's a particular problem at FF as this is an open matriarchy (in other words: no ownership) which sometimes attracts 'hunters' who think its a free place to grab men. Grabbing them is great, and fun, but not if you are taking them away to lock them up or drain their bank accounts. Those things completely undermine a free and open Matriarchy.

She Drums

She Drums is a very interesting group in Chicago. (from time to time, I'll post links to other All Women's Drum Circles around the world, aside from our own one in Second Life!

Conversations With Men: Like Playing Volleyball

I recently was in one of those 'conversation's with a man and it occurred to me I felt like I was playing volleyball! But I wasn't sure exactly how or why......so here was my thought process.....

At first, I felt I was on one side of the net, alone, and the man was a team of 12, so when I hit the ball to the man, I would never know which one would be returning it. For example, I'd serve ('Where did you get that mop, slave?) and I'd get back ('you look lovely today. Goddess')....
But then I realized those 12 men would need to be organized, in their own way, and I don't believe they are. They would all be playing their own 'random' game.

THEN I thought, maybe there are 12 of me and just one man, who cannot handle the constant serves coming over the net. That seemed more likely, and would explain why they often respond properly to only 1 out of 12 things i say. But then I realized, one man alone would probably be more focused and would probably actually return my serves better. Hmmm...

THEN I finally figured it out! Conversations with men are exactly like playing volleyball against yourself! I have no ideas where the men are on the court, but it's a real workout!

New Worship Ring

This simple new toy is suddenly one of my favorites. The Worship Ring allows you to choose from a selection of standing poses while up to three men kneel around you in constant worship. It's relaly fun to use this as away to teach them how to 'pray' in unison. I love it!

Women and Power Conference SEP 24-26

The Women and Power Conference: Our Time To Lead is SEP 24-26 and I encourage evryoen to visit the website and consider attending this historic event.
(from the site:)
This year, the conference is a call-out to women of all ages and backgrounds to become the leaders we have been waiting for. Whether you are a professional, activist, volunteer, student, artist, mother, spiritual seeker, or social visionary, it is time for us to dig deep, retrieve our authentic voice and values, and lead with courage and heart—at home, work, and in the world.

SEP Catalog and Guide

Here is the cover and ibside spread of the new September 2010 Future Femdom Catalog and Guide, containing all of the images and teleport links to the various items and places of the city. The catalog is available at the city Landing Point, in various Reading Seats throughout the city, at the Catalog Room and also the Reading Room.

Who Needs Bad Men?

An interesting topic that comes up sometimes.....(and recently, a slave brought it up)....du we 'punish'; men in Future Femdom?

The short answer is NO.

If a man is 'bad'...a man is banned from FF..I do not tolerate bad men...they can live in prisons..far away from Us. (other places seem to tolerate bad men, but not at Future Femdom. Some place=s even seem to make a business out of it. )


Woman has NO USE for bad men.... ever.
If a man is bad on purpose...intentionally...then I do not want him near Us...he is useless....
if it is an honest mistake, that is different (we all make mistakes!)

If a man makes a very bad mistake (continually forget rules or is otherwise disrespectful, for example) he will be banned and will need to work hard to return....We do not do the work...slaves do

Everything is for OUR convenience......if I have to whip a man, that is NOT convenient...why should I work for a man?
So punishment makes no sense...because man must do the work to be GOOD.
The Future has absolutely NO PLACE for bad men.

Euphoria Park Opens

I'm happy to announce the opening of our newest mini-park, Euphoria, where you can relax on a pedestal, be worshiped, watch the flying pheonix and contemplate the future. Join us!

Ecstasy Wall

This has got to be one of the most fun toys in Future Femdom now. The Ecstasy Wall has 4 'slave tubes' where men crawl inside and only their heads stick out. You can do whatever you want with them that way (many animations) and we often use this toy to train the cute little men to 'produce' inside those tubes. The Ecstasy Wall is in the Concourse Area under the Landing Point of Future Femdom.

Sitting in the Sculpture Garden

Men should be fit and energetic to be the best worshipers. As I always say, no statues! (other 'femdom places' can have the statue men..ugh..not here)
Anyway, here we are in the Play Garden, surrounded by actual statues, as I rest my boots on a little slave. I can tell you it is wriggling quite energetically!

Welcome to the Matriarchy

With a loving hand and smiling heart, the Sisterhood will lead this world into a brilliant future, where We Connect as Keepers of Humanity, and men evolve to respect, love and honor Us like the wonderful worshipers they were bred to be. The Matriarchy is happening, one day at a time! Learn More

Future Femdom in the Guide

Future Femdom has a write up and spread in the new Femdom Community in SL GUIDE, a publication that highlighta and introduces the worlds of 'femdom' in Second Life. This very exciting book has features about various femdom locations, common terms and more. It's a very nice publication! (I also wrote few pieces inside about 'Worship' and other terms. Go here to see an online version of the Femdom Community Guide (or get in inworld in Second Life!)

Out Of Control Men

There are some uncomfortable discrepancies between 'evolved Feminism' and what one often sees in the 'bdsm/kink' world of Femdom.
Some Defintions:
Evolved Feminism: Respect and Love of All Woman across the globe, on a societal level, in all societies. If even one instance of oppression exists in one corner of Earth, it harms the entire movement. Men must be bred to love and respect to the level of worship, as the willing partners in destiny they are created to be.
Femdom: an admittedly vague word with tenuous roots, but one We can 'redefine' and claim as We wish. Female-Led Business, Community and Society. (men are important to the exten they worship Us as We lead the world)
Bdsm/Kink: relegated to the bedroom, private matters that are not really progressive, but, in fact, keep Femdom in the shadows and unable to evolve.

Now, on to my point!
The Bdsm/Kink world is often the worst place to see Evolved Feminism, as there are STILL situations and a mentality where men are seen as intimidating creatures that must be controlled. There is no need to control a creature that is willingly worshiping you. To cage men, restrain them, chastise them, etc.....These practices speak from a mindset that seems to allow men more power and threat than they deserve.

Men are humorous at times, ridiculous at others, but they are not a threat to the Sisterhood. They are an amusing and pleasurable pastime or distraction sometimes, and a great supportive part of life. but to give them the 'threatening' status elevates them to a priority that they should not have. Note" if a toy seems dangerous, don't play with it, and stop producing it!

We have tolerated arrogance from men in the past, and then elevated them to a threatening status, so much of it is our own doing. But, as society evolves, and the barriers between us dissolve, Sisterhood Connects and We see men as the supportive playthings they can be, the threat must dissolve too.


Yes, the Bdsm/Kink world is often the hardest place to affect these changes. It is very very clever of the patriarchy to 'contain' Evolved Feminism by relegating it to the bedroom and reinforcing behaviors of imprisonment, chastity and restraint. It is as if the entire landscape of pornography-inspired 'femdom' was made to project men a 'necessary-to-contain' threat. That message does nothing to help Empowerment. It merely plays into the egos of men who want to be seen as still 'dominant' (by letting them think 'femdom' is the exception to the rule)

In truth, as Matriarchy becomes the Norm and not the exception, the perceived 'threat' of men will seem more ludicrous and the need to contain them, quite redundant.

Love of the Earth

August is Love of the Earth month, and here is a little poster we've come up with to celebrate. (anyone who sends us a photo of the poster in a room or other interesting place will wina prize!)

The Importance of Networks

This week's great video:
Women's Leadership: Importance of Networks

Walk On A Slave!

A new simple rug that allows you to walk back and forth over a man!
Teleport to the rug now

Every Nice Thing You Do Makes A Difference In The World

Every Nice Thing You Do Makes A Difference In The World

Those gestures, gifts and kind words really add up. As slaves, your purpose is to worship Us, and that includes praise, love and full respect. With each instance of your demonstrated efforts, your worship energy touches Us, relaxes Us, pleases Us. The more you do this, the more Joy We will feel and help bring to this World. Peace is made up of Pieces; each day and each moment in that day and the pieces of wonderful worship you can provide. Do not think your efforts of love are never felt or appreciated. Every little point of your worship adds to a great air that We breathe, a sweet smell that entrances, an uplifting energy that excites and inspires. You were designed to love Us, and there endless ways for yo to do so. There are also endless opportunities for this. Take as many as you can! Make your own difference in the World!

The Future Of Feminism (interview)

A fascinating interview with Christina Hoff Sommers! (I will be posting links to more and more about the New Wave of Feminism and its many voices as the months go on...Enjoy!)
Read about the Future of Feminism now

The New Day Is Ours

A new poster we have available at Future femdom (it can be found along the Gallery Walkway

Boots Go Formal part 2

Evidence part 2 that boots are perfect for formal occasions! See this great article about Boots for Formal (and semi-formal!) use.

AUG 2010 Future Femdom Catalog and Guide

OUT NOW is the AUG 2010 Future Femdom Catalog and Guide, filled with all the teleport locations and images you need to explore the city of FF. We have the catalog throughout the city in various places, including inside our infamous Reading Seats. Get your copy when you visit!

Women and Power: Great Video!

This is a fabulous video promoting the upcoming Women and Power event: Our Time To Lead

All Womens Drum Circle at IFD 2010

Just posted a gallery of some fun photos from the All Womens Drum Circle, part of International Femdom Day in SL, presented by Femdom Community in SL as an event run by Future Femdom. It was a high energy session, with some naked men squirming around, some dancing, and lots of transcendental beats.
See the Full Photo Gallery

Boots Go Formal

Had a big disagreement with someone recently about whether or not boots can work with an gown. My position? A resounding YES (it's not only done...but there are classic looks that incorporate it). Anywhere here is an article and soem photos about the topic: Wearing Boots With Gowns

Definition of Goddess

Here is how we define 'Goddess'....

A Goddess is:

1) a Woman who loves and uses positive energy in all things, who never resorts to anger or negative emotions. Sadness is not negative..it is part of beauty and love...but anger and hatred have no place in heaven.

2) a Woman who recognizes and embraces the existence of all other Goddesses, the Sisterhood, the Matriarchy and seeks to help us Connect. Selfishness, ego and isolation have no place in heaven.

3) a Woman who fights for her principles, philosophies and Precepts., who represents her Aspect with faith and commitment and cannot be swayed or undermined. Laziness or lack of clarity have no place in heaven!

4) a Woman who realizes that Power or Rights are nothing compared to Responsibilty, as it is when we assume great Responsibilty that we direct the path of the world.
Our natural evolution is to become Goddess-Empowered, which requires the recognition and removal of the manipulations of men and the growth of our own abilities and responsibilities. Liberation means Connecting.

Slaves Make Me Laugh

I think one of the wonderful qualities of men can be, that they sometimes make Us laugh, and that's a great break in day filled with stress. They are created to please Us, worship us, and amuse Us. It's the 'amusement' part I am thinking about now.
Sometimes, I line them up and have them tell jokes, or limericks. or funny anecdotes. Sometimes, I've just been through a lot of work and a quick laugh is just the thing to relax me. Teaching men to be relaxed themselves, and comfortable enough to be able to provide amusement, is important. Nervous, stressed or anxious men have little use.
So..the message? Teach men to relax and Make Us Laugh, so We can really enjoy them!
(this is a funny photo sent to em by slave andre)

International Femdom Day: Teleport Now!

This is the actual teleport link to the THREE DAY event: International Femdom Day in SL, an historic happening in the world of Second Life. Go there now!

International Femdom Day Radio

Here is the link for the music stream for IFDinSL. A wild mix of music plus actual IFD commercials! http://euro1.neostreams.info:10972/
Remember to enter Second Life and join the THREE DAY celebrations as we have so much to do! Fashion Shows! Concerts! Dances! Slave Contests! More!!!
Presented by Femdom Community in SL and designed to coordinate with International Femdom Day throughout the world.

Pillow Throne

We have a new toy that is comfortable and is designed for up to three men to wroship you at once,k as you relax on these stacked pillows. The Pillow Throne has multiple poses for Goddess and some very interesting poses for slaves.

FRIENDS: Four Projects For All Of Us

FRIENDS: FOUR THINGS TO DO

July is the Love of Friendship month, the time to make friends, and stay acquainted with old ones, to rekindle lost friendships and turn adversaries into allies. Throughout July, I try to really work on those four projects.

1. Making Friends
Expanding your social circle by getting out to more gatherings is a great way to contact more people. Accept those invitations! Go along for the ride! Be seen! There is never any guarantee a social circle will develop friendships, but it certainly is very difficult to make new friends of any type otherwise. It starts with being in circulation. I tend to go to more parties and more outings in July!

2. Staying In Touch
It is on everyone's shoulder, that perpetual nag to stay connected with friends when time is slipping by. As life becomes busier each and every second, the moments seem elusive where reaching out to a friend feels more of a luxury. It is human nature to feel that pressure, and because everyone has the same problem, everyone understands. That is why, making the time, making those moments, counts for so much. There is never enough time; we know that. We can slow down and breathe and make the time, however, and create our own space of luxury, where contacting a friend simply to stay up-to-date, makes both of us feel wonderful. I try to reach out to everyone on my 'Friends List' in July.

3. Rekindle Lost Friendships
Perhaps too much time has gone by, or incidents in the past have caused a drifting away. There are countless reasons why a friend from your past has slipped from you. Reach out; make the effort. Will it truly be rekindled, same as before? Not necessarily. Is it a good thing to do anyway? There is only one way to find out! Take the chance and reach out. I do my best to make that effort in July. Even if nothing much comes of it aside from a single 'catching up' conversation, the chance is taken and that can mean everything

4. Turn Adversaries into Allies
Maybe some old friends have become enemies, and there are those you know, who started out as enemies from day one. In any case, who needs that energy in their life? It may not be possible to make friends with enemies, but at least you can reach an understanding, perhaps even cooperation. A tiny pinch of friendship, perhaps, added to the recipe. A small dose of warmth to help reduce the cold. Can it be done? I like to think small steps in the right direction are huge leaps. In July, I try to ease the tension and soften the anxiety with adversaries. Any improvement is worth it.

Those are my four Friendship projects for July. I hope you find some benefit in them.

Femdom Community in SL

Future Femdom is now part of Femdom Community in SL (FCSL) a positive gathering of 'femdom leaders' in the world of Second Life. FCSL is actually the new name of The Femdom Network, the same group that produced Femdom Day and many other events with a focus on connecting femdom organisations and increasing awareness. This year, FCSL is producing the first ever International Femdom Day in SL, an event designed to coincide with the IFD events throughout the world in various cities.

Passion Park

A preview of our new relaxation and play area at Future Fedmom. Passion Park has seating for 5 Goddesses and 15 worshipers., plus additional pillows for even more. A total of 30 could fit here (but knowing SL, that would crash us all) In the center is a large Passion Egg (an energy fountain). We will be adding this area to the Future Femdom Guide soon.

June Catalog Out Now

The new June edition of the Future Femdom catalog and guide is out now, featuring new items like the Pleasure Altar and Slave Pile Rugs. Get the catalog at the Future Femdom Landing Point or in any of the various Reading Seats throughout the city.

International Femdom Day in SL

I'm very happy to announce that Future Femdom will be involved in International Femdom Day ()a truly global celebration in many cities across the world). There will be special Second Life 'version' of this great occasion. presented by the Femdom Community of SL (a group that FF belongs to). IFD will be July 24 and much more details to come.

Femdom = Freedom

Here is the very first in a series of Tshirts that feature the new Femdom = Freedom slogan. I plan to have a contest soon, opening up design ideas to anyone that wants to contribute. For now, come and get your very affordable shirt at Future Femdom (in the TShirt Display on the Gallery Walkway)

Pleasure Altar

Introducing a new piece of furniture at Future Femdom, the Pleasure Altar, designed for up to 2 Goddesses and 3 slaves. This toy has many diverse uses, and also includes two lamps that can provide a beautiful glow and also hold 2 shrunken slaves.
Teleport to the Pleasure Altar to try it